My 2012 story (so far):
In the month of January I was suppose to take my "wife" to the mall. So I go up stairs to get ready and see her facebook open. Curiosity struck so I opened a message, well needless to say it wasn't good. Stuff being said " It sucks I can't be with the one I want to be with, the other night was amazing," and much much more.
I was upset, drove off, and came back. After I basically got kicked out (I thought it was just a drunken kiss). She moves the other "man" in within 24 hours of me moving out. I'm sure that's real good for our 4 year old son to see. So within the next couple of days I called and called and found out EVERYTHING. It should have been obvious to me then, when I was reading it, but I'm hot tempered everything was a jumbled mess of words.
Well in the instance I discovered the truth, my mentality switched. I was done, through, finished, and moving on with my life. During that process I realized how unhappy I was with her, for months. I am notorious of finding people I use to hang out with in school and see where their life has went. I found one of my friends from school. We were shooting the breeze on facebook, and after we agreed on a day and time we met up at Starbucks. We parted ways she went to go see her mom, I went home and thought about her. Almost as soon as I got home I was going to call but to my knowledge she was with her mom, I would of asked to meet up on her way home but I didn't want it sound like I'm after something other than her heart, then I decided a text no matter how lame/silly/shy/less masculine it was I was going to do it... So after that we started talking and by the end of the month we were exclusive. I'm cool like that B)
We're just the right amount of fire and water, enough to stay warm and hydrated. I love her.
To list thing that have happened from December to current:
I can't see my son
She wants me back.
I can't see my son
She is pregnant with the other "man's" baby
I can't see my son
She is refusing to sign divorce papers.
I can't see my son
Issued a good behavior warrant on her
I can't see my son
She cancelled my car insurance
My girl-friend and I live together got our own place.
I became an unofficial step-father (their dad is still in the picture and is active in their lives)
I found the a girl that I just want to be around every waking moment.
I miss her when I leave for work and get butterflies on my way home.
We plan and do everything together
We are always having fun, even doing mundane house cleaning.
I just can't wait till I can see my son, be divorced and marry my sweetheart. Life will be true bliss.
My Love and I



















































